A Day in the Life: a tribute to my men in uniform

OLD POSTS NEED LOVE TOO… HERE’S ONE FROM 5 YEARS AGO!

ORIGINALLY PUBLISHED NOV. 9, 2013

“Today, on a military base (which I shall not name) located somewhere in the Helmand province of Afghanistan, this is happening…

The weather was cooler today, ranging from a high in the upper 60s to a low in the 50s, but it was dry. It will get much colder in about a month. This means breaking out winter gear for the troops, but that’s okay, because colder weather also means fighting season is coming to a close for this year. Considering there is a troop drawdown in place, fighting and attacks still occur too frequently for my liking. I know in real time when an attack or a casualty has occurred. How? All external communications are cut, and my personal daily communications with my consultants halt abruptly and stay dark for hours.

In fact, just yesterday there was some excitement, which I can’t talk about. There are a lot of things I can’t write here, so let’s move on to what I can.

Tonight for dinner the main line in the chow hall served rotisserie chicken, baked trout, steamed white rice, baked potatoes, broccoli, macaroni salad and vegetable lo mein. The food is good there–maybe on account of the suggestion box located in the dining hall–there is a mix of traditional American as well as ethnic offerings that changes daily. Selections have included Gyros and Eggplant Parmesan. There is fruit served at every meal and ice cream for dessert. But even so, a group of Marines decided to have a good old fashioned barbecue tonight instead of eating in the chow hall. They made kabobs and sausage. They set up a grill and appointed official grillers. It is, after all, the Marine Corps Birthday weekend, but unlike their fellow Marines back at rear, they won’t be donning dress blues. This year, there is no Marine Corps Ball for them. Word is for tomorrow’s meal, served on the actual Marine Corps Birthday, there will be lobster, fried shrimp and steak to celebrate.

A few of the SNCOs had to travel to the General’s compound on the other side of base today. They have been putting in 14+ hour days for the past week, rather than their usual 12 hours a day, preparing and practicing for this brief.

Some of those SNCO’s, the ones in the zone for promotion, are waiting on pins and needles right now. The promotions board convened a week later than planned because of the government shutdown, which means the results will also be delayed, so they wait.

Some will head to bed early tonight because college football rivalries know no boundaries. The game will air today in the States, but for these troops it will air at 05:30 Sunday morning. They plan to get to work early to watch it because there are some big bets on the line. No, not cash–the loser has to pay for the winner’s haircuts through the end of the deployment. It’s not a stretch to suppose the cheering during the game will be much like any bar or home here in the US today, except rather than wearing team jerseys, these fans will travel to watch the game in their required MarPat, Kevlar and Flaks, with an ever-present pistol on their hip.

Yesterday, I mailed my guys’  Christmas gifts. Why so early? No, it shouldn’t take that long to reach Afghanistan. Probably about 10 days, maybe a bit longer. But who knows? Things happen to delay mail sometimes. Meanwhile, I am happily anticipating the unit’s “mail stop” date to be announced shortly because they are nearing the end of this deployment.

I write fiction for a living, so there’s a chance many of you think the above is made up. Me using literary license to entertain. It’s not. Every single item above is fact. It’s what I have to do, what I have to know, to write military romance.

What is that old saying? You can pick your friends, but you can’t pick your relatives? Very true sentiment. Since 2006, the times have been few and far between that I haven’t had at least one friend waking up in a war zone. There is currently a calendar app installed on my computer. I set it to count down to the date in the near future when finally all of my guys will be back on US soil. How long that will last before one or more deploys again, I don’t know, but still, that day when we all stand on the same continent will be a very good day.”

12 thoughts on “A Day in the Life: a tribute to my men in uniform

  1. Awesome Cat. I remember fondly many of the things you describe here. Fondly because I’m in the states and not over there. Right now, all my friends are stateside, as far as I know. A blessing as that is usually not the case.

    Uniforms Desires is awesome…..and at times very realistic. Cat, thank you for your support of those who are deployed. You have no idea how much that means. And, for the other authors of this bundle, thank you for your service and that of your family.

    We’re all in this together. We just all have different roles to play.

  2. Great post, Cat. I’ve been anxiously waiting for “Uniform Desires,” since I 1-clicked it.

    It takes very special people to volunteer for the most dangerous jobs in the world. Even though he’s been out of the service for a while, I am still astounded that my sweet, gentle, almost Zen-like, progressive Hubby is a Gulf War Era vet. But, I’ve never met anyone more committed to being present and honoring other vets, especially the young ones, than Hubby. He’s one of a kind and I’m blessed to be married to him.

    Thank you to all the men and women who serve and have served!

  3. This is a great post, Cat, and yeah, having them all safely stateside would be a great blessing. Thanks for all your wonderful military romance. And family isn’t just in the blood and DNA you share, it’s also in those who have found a place in your heart. I’d say you do have family serving. 🙂

  4. I know all about waiting for loved ones to come home. My husband pulled 16 months in Iraq back in 03-04 and then he and our middle son were deployed together to Afghanistan in 09 for 12 months. There were 5 sets of fathers and sons in their unit by the way! We too had our own way of communicating situations and missions. I knew when they were headed out, where they were traveling and for the most part what they were doing, whether it was route clearance or demolition or construction, etc. Both came home safe and sound although they saw a lot of firefight. Their base was in the mountains near the Pakistan border. Any way we support our military makes us family, so count yourself a part! Thank you for all that you contribute and keep up the good work and great writing!!

    1. I am very happy to hear both are safe! One of my guys was Army infantry and in those mountains–scary stuff–but he too is home. And another of the older guys I know is also deployed with his son to Afghanistan. There are so many similar stories and situations in the military community. Thanks for sharing yours, Robin.

    2. Thank you for your support of our guys and girls! My Son, Sgt. Derek Crowley, of the USMC, is currently in Afghanistan. I am patiently waiting his return.

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